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Saturday, September 09, 2023

Remembering Ben Akers, BTC - A Few Words From A Shipmate

 Robert H. "Bobby" Akers Jr.
December 19, 1968 - November 28, 2018

He was "Ben" to his shipmates. We served together in "B" Division onboard The USS Dubuque between 1987 and 1989, stationed at Sasebo, Japan. Ben was ten years my younger and ten times the BT.

The self is not something that one finds. It is something one creates.
—Thomas Szasz

It's normal for us not to be able to remember everyone we ever served with, when and where. For me, Ben Akers was easy to remember because he was hands down the hardest working Hole Snipe I ever knew. He was strong, tireless, resourceful, and not afraid to get dirty. He had a kind of quick, dry wit about him, as I recall. Even tempered, he spoke with a Western Pennsylvania dialect. Akers was the last person I ever heard use "yinz" in a sentence. He was a 4.0 Sailor. Squared away. His "gig line" was straight. Pick your metaphor, but Ben Akers was born to be a BT in The US Navy. I was honored to serve with him.

So, since the last time I saw Ben Akers, a lot has changed. The introduction of the World Wide Web was a biggie. I tried to search him out many years ago, but nothing came back. I remembered him again just yesterday, so I sent out another search. This time I got the sad news of his sudden passing back in 2018. Condolences to his widow, and his family. Jimmy Buffett wrote;

He's somewhere on the ocean now A place he oughta be With one hand on the starboard rail He's wavin' back at me

Fair Winds and Following Seas, Shipmate.

―Strasser, BT2

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Saturday, September 02, 2023

Jimmy Buffett Has "Crost the Bar"



December 25, 1946 - September 01, 2023

Be good and you will be lonesome.
―Mark Twain
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Be lonesome and you will be free
Live a lie and you will live to regret it
That's What Living is to Me.
―Jimmy Buffett

Son of a Son of a Sailor · The Captain and the Kid · A Pirate Looks at Forty · Cowboy in the Jungle · Havana Daydreamin' · He went to Paris · Tin Cup Chalice · Margaritaville · Come Monday · Tides · The Wino and I know · Trying to Reason with a Hurricane · Cheeseburger in Paradise · Fruitcakes · Life is Just a Tire Swing · Door Number Three

Changes in Latitudes, Changes in Attitudes

I've been listening to Jimmy Buffett's stories since The Great Filling Station Holdup. Inspired! I wanted to be a Sailor so I joined The Navy. I wanted to hang out on the beach so I spent a year in Costa Rica - on the bum. Everywhere I've been, the wit and wisdom of Jimmy Buffett was right there with me, and I thank God for that.

Breathe in, Breathe Out, Move On

Jimmy Buffett, The Sailor, Singer, Songwriter, Musician, Businessman, Philosopher, and Philanthropist will forever be an inspiration to people across the globe. Passed from this earth now, but not forgotten, his legacy is the gift that keeps on giving.

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Thursday, February 02, 2023

Remembering Robert Douglas "Doug" Badger of Long Beach, California

March 30, 1951 - January 16, 2023

Doug Badger, devoted dad, husband, friend, mentor, shipmate, and sharer of knowledge, "crossed the bar" on January 16, 2023. I was on the phone speaking with a vendor out in California yesterday. I brought up Doug in the conversation. The vendor said "I guess you haven't heard". Right then my heart sank and I wept.

If you would thoroughly know anything, teach it to others.
—Tryon Edwards

I guess it was around 1996 when I first contacted Doug. We traded a few old sea stories and it was like I'd known him all my life. I'm sure a lot of other people got the same impression. Over the next 25 years or so I'd ring up Doug on occasion to see if he could help me with some material, or just to shoot the breeze with him. But every single time, without fail,  I'd end up picking his brain. Because he knew his business. And that is a fact. I made a trip out to see Doug once. I'm glad I got to meet him, thank him, and shake his hand.

The best conduct a man can adopt is that which gains him the esteem of others without depriving him of his own.
—The Talmud

Today my thoughts are with Doug's family. Celebrate his life. The last time I spoke with Doug he was happy and well, and loving life and family. That's how I knew Doug, and that's how I will always remember him.

Character gives splendor to youth and awe to wrinkled skin and gray hairs.
—Ralph Waldo Emerson

Rest In Peace, Doug.

Dave

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Wednesday, December 28, 2022

Crossing the Bar by Alfred, Lord Tennyson

Crossing the Bar
BY ALFRED, LORD TENNYSON

Sunset and evening star,
And one clear call for me!
And may there be no moaning of the bar,
When I put out to sea,

But such a tide as moving seems asleep,
Too full for sound and foam,
When that which drew from out the boundless deep
Turns again home.

Twilight and evening bell,
And after that the dark!
And may there be no sadness of farewell,
When I embark;

For tho' from out our bourne of Time and Place
The flood may bear me far,
I hope to see my Pilot face to face
When I have crost the bar.

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Sunday, January 23, 2022

Post #3108

When the wind will not serve, take to the oars.
—Latin Proverb

Sunday, December 27, 2020

Post #3051

It's a great thing to have a lady aboard with clean habits. It sets the man a good example. A man alone, he gets to living like a hog.
—Humphrey Bogart/Charlie Allnut (from The African Queen)

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Monday, January 22, 2018

Post #2496

Patience is the ballast of the soul, that will keep it from rolling and tumbling in the greatest storms: and he, that will venture out without this to make him sail even and steady will certainly make shipwreck, and drown himself; first, in the cares and sorrows of this world; and, then, in perdition.
—Ezekiel Hopkins 

Wednesday, May 11, 2016

Post #2073

Human experience, like the stern lights of a ship at sea, too often illuminates only the path we have passed over.
—Samuel Taylor Coleridge

Wednesday, March 02, 2016

Post #2023

The slack sail shifts from side to side,
The boat, untrimm'd, admits the tide,
Borne down, adrift, at random tost,
The oar breaks short, the rudder's lost.
—John Gay

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Monday, August 03, 2015

Post #1871

Hath fortune dealt thee ill cards? let wisdom make thee a good gamester. In a fair gale, every fool may sail, but wise behavior in a storm commends the wisdom of a pilot; to bear adversity with an equal mind is both the sign and glory of a brave spirit.
—Francis Quarles

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Monday, April 27, 2015

Post #1801

By strength of heart the sailor fights roaring seas.
—William Wordsworth

Monday, July 21, 2014

Post #1601

He knows the compass, sail, and oar, 
Or never launches from the shore; 
Before he builds, computes the cost, 
And in no proud pursuit is lost.
—John Gay


Friday, May 02, 2014

Post #1539

The woodman is superior by knowledge of his art rather than by strength ; the pilot guides the swift ship in the dark-blue sea by skill, when it is tempest-tossed ; the charioteer is superior to his rival by his skill.
—Homer

Wednesday, April 30, 2014

Post #1537

You can no more make a sailor of a land-lubber by dressing him up in sea-toggery, and putting a commission into his hands, than you can make a shoemaker of him by filling him with sherry-cobblers.
—Admiral Farragut

Sunday, November 10, 2013

Post #1400

You are uneasy; you have never sailed with me before, I see.
—Andrew Jackson

Tuesday, October 15, 2013

Post #1374

The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects it to change; the realist adjusts the sails.
—William Arthur Ward

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Friday, October 11, 2013

Post #1370

Fortune is the best school of courage when she is fraught with anger, in the same way as winds and tempest are the school of the sailorboy.
—Pietro Metastasio

Monday, April 15, 2013

Post #1232

Ships at a distance have every man's wish on board. For some they come in with the tide. For others they sail forever on the same horizon, never out of sight, never landing until the Watcher turns his eyes away in resignation, his dreams mocked to death by Time. That is the life of men.
—Zora Neale Hurston

Tuesday, December 18, 2012

Post #1140

He that will not sail till all dangers are over must never put to sea.
—Thomas Fuller

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Monday, September 24, 2012

Post #1067

How little do the landsmen know
Of what we sailors feel,
When the waves do mount and the winds do blow!
But we have hearts of steel.
—The Sailor's Resolution, 18th century

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The Penalty of Leadership

In every field of human endeavor, he that is first must perpetually live in the white light of publicity. Whether the leadership be vested in a man or in a manufactured product, emulation and envy are ever at work. In art, in literature, in music, in industry, the reward and the punishment are always the same. The reward is widespread recognition; the punishment, fierce denial and detraction. When a man’s work becomes a standard for the whole world, it also becomes a target for the shafts of the envious few. If his work be mediocre, he will be left severely alone – if he achieve a masterpiece, it will set a million tongues a -wagging. Jealousy does not protrude its forked tongue at the artist who produces a commonplace painting. Whatsoever you write, or paint, or play, or sing, or build, no one will strive to surpass or to slander you unless your work be stamped with the seal of genius. Long, long after a great work or a good work has been done, those who are disappointed or envious, continue to cry out that it cannot be done. Spiteful little voices in the domain of art were raised against our own Whistler as a mountebank, long after the big world had acclaimed him its greatest artistic genius. Multitudes flocked to Bayreuth to worship at the musical shrine of Wagner, while the little group of those whom he had dethroned and displaced argued angrily that he was no musician at all. The little world continued to protest that Fulton could never build a steamboat, while the big world flocked to the river banks to see his boat steam by. The leader is assailed because he is a leader, and the effort to equal him is merely added proof of that leadership. Failing to equal or to excel, the follower seeks to depreciate and to destroy – but only confirms once more the superiority of that which he strives to supplant. There is nothing new in this. It is as old as the world and as old as human passions – envy, fear, greed, ambition, and the desire to surpass. And it all avails nothing. If the leader truly leads, he remains – the leader. Master-poet, master-painter, master-workman, each in his turn is assailed, and each holds his laurels through the ages. That which is good or great makes itself known, no matter how loud the clamor of denial. That which deserves to live — lives.
written by Theodore F. MacManus

A deadly viper once bit a hole snipe's hide; But 'twas the viper, not the snipe, that died.

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